For all the Family/Friends who will be reading my blogs, I would like to take the time to introduce our Wedding Party and thank each one of them for the love and support they have given us and about to give!
Jae’s attendants:
Jennifer Wilks: Maid of Honor: Best Friend and partner in crime: If you were to meet Jenn you probably wouldn’t understand her. She’s hard to get a long with, but in all realness she’s a wonderful friend. Maybe I’m the only one who can actually understand her. Who knows, but she’s been there for me thru thick and thin and I know will continue to be there for me/us. I’m sure if you’ve seen any of my pictures you would see we’re always having a good time and just being us! Jenn, thank you for all the love, advice, support, ear listening, friendship and everything in between that you’ve given me. You always know when to make me smile/laugh and always know when I’m upset. Thank you Beamers I love you!


Amy Cooke: Maid of Honor: Childhood Best Friend: Amy has been an inspiration to me since we were in the 5th grade. Amy has been there for me thru everything, well pretty much everything. Even though we had a few years in between our closeness, we did find each other again and I’m so glad we did. Amy and I don’t necessarily have to see or talk to each other every day to know we love each other – it’s just there. She is and will always be my sunshine! Her family has been my 2nd family for as long as I know. They are wonderful people and have been there for me through a lot! Amy, Thank you for your love, support, caring, and faith. Without you I’m not sure where I would. I love you forever!

Kelley Leeanne McDonald: Matron of Honor: Cousin and Best Friend. We grew up together, so we’ve been through a lot. It’s weird because I know we were really close when we were younger, but while we were growing up & maturing she was so far it was hard for us to see and talk to each other. It wasn’t like it is today where we can pick up the cell phone and call, or IM, or email. Thank goodness she came back to live in Texas a few years ago. That was our “time” that brought us back together. You never know what emptiness you had until someone was out of your life then suddenly appears again. It’s great and boy am I glad we’re close again. I was her Maid of Honor this past May, as you may have read. It was a wonderful time and I am so thankful to have been a part of it. Leeanne, you are an amazing cousin and friend. Thank you for your never ending love and support. I hope we go through with that “contract” you have and live next door to each other so our kids can grow up together like we did. Hehe. Love you always!!


Kristen Jarrott: Bridesmaid: Sister: We didn’t necessarily grow up together like regular sisters do, but we’re still close. Kristen is my half sister, we’re 6 years apart, so there is a little gap in there. I remember when Kristen was little and we would come out to visit our Nanny or Liz/Billy. I would usually bring a friend (Kristy, Amy, Lindsey, Leigh, or Kristel) and my goodness we were so bad and mean. I never knew we could be so mean. Not extremely mean, but all Kristen wanted to do was be like us and do everything we were doing. Of course, as “older” girls we hated that, so we would be mean. I hope my kids aren’t like that, b/c I can only imagine how it feels…sorry Kristen if you remember hehe! Kristen has become a very mature young lady who still has her entire life a head of her. Kristen, thank you for putting up with me and my friends as we taunted you. You are truly an amazing sister and couldn’t ask for a better one. Love you!


Stephanie Blackwell: Bridesmaid: Brant’s cousin: I don’t know if we hit it off right off the bat, I think we did because they always tell me how happy they are to have me in Brant’s life. But, I do know Stephanie has been a great friend to me and cousin to Brant. I know growing up Brant and his cousins didn’t always get along b/c he was the “bad child”, but now they see someone they probably never thought they would see. Stephanie was always there if I needed to talk to her about Brant, life, or anything at that matter. She’s very honest and open – which I love! She’ll tell you like it is – hehe! Stephanie – you have always been so open and honest with me and I thank you so much for that. I only hope as we grow older I can do the same. I hope we continue to be as close as we are now (everyone at that matter), since we will eventually be in the same spot the parents are now. I can’t wait to be your cousin-in-law ;). Thank you for your ears when I needed someone to talk to, it’s greatly appreciated! Love you!

Courtney Epstein: Bridesmaid: Brant’s cousin, Stephanie’s sister: A little different than Stephanie, they would probably say Courtney is the super sweet one. Which she is! I know growing up with Brant had to be hard ;). Somehow you and everyone made it through. Just like Stephanie, she is always open and willing to talk to me. I’ve never seen her upset, she’s always smiling, and has a great personality. I love how we can sit back and talk about others as they do the same thing to us – haha! I hope we have more of those. I do want all of the “porter cousins” to be closer than they are now once we all have our families. I think family is important and being together is just as important. Courtney – thank you for being you. Thank you for helping me in matters that I needed help in and for always wanting to listen. You are an amazing person and I can’t wait to be your cousin . Love you!

Patty Mora: Bridesmaid: Friend: What a wonderful, good hearted person Patty is. If she was in pain or going thru something her self and see that you are hurting, she would drop what she’s doing to help you. That’s the kind of friend Patty is. She has a heart of gold and is an amazing friend. I just knew I would have a lot to say about her, but then when I got to it, that first sentence says it all - -haha, how things turn out :). Patty – thank you for being you and never changing. You are a wonderful mother and friend. Anyone who has you in their life is truly blessed. Never stop being you and thank you!!! Love you!

Tory Porter: Bridesmaid: Brant’s cousin: Some people might think it’s weird I have 3 of Brant’s cousins as my BM’s…do I care? No. The reason is b/c 1. I can’t just choose one, because I love them all the same. 2. I’m close to each and every one of them in our own ways, so I wanted them all as my attendants. Nothing wrong with it! Just thought I would put that in there ;). Tory is probably a little closer to Brant more than the others – why is that? I’m really not sure being she’s the youngest of the 3, but they just connect. Tory has a, what’s the word, High Spirit Personality. She’s always smiling, always perky; however, she is very fashionable and the others let her know :). Tory is a great person with a great heart. Tory – thank you for your endless talks with me and support! You are a great person and I’m looking forward to being your cousin-in-law ;). Love you!

Ok, that’s a lot of writing in one day for me. I will have to acknowledge Brant’s attendants and the House Party later today! :).
Brant and I are looking forward to November 3rd. I know I am very lucky to have these 8 ladies as my wedding party. They are all unique and amazing in their own ways. I know if I needed something, even just a simple talk everyone of them would be there for me! You ladies are amazing and I want to thank you again for being apart of this with us! Thank you in advance for putting up with me ;)…I seriously don’t think I’ll be that bad!
Have a fantastic week.
COURTNEY/STEPHANIE: BIG BROTHER TONIGHT. I’m super excited y’all watch that! Hehe!
LOVE YOU,
Jae